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		<title>Comment on  by Jean</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2007/10/10/23/#comment-56</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 20:59:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Kate,
Excuse me for reading this like what .....three years later!!  Just had to comment, I found this amazing!  Of course our generation is out of control ....completely done a wild flip here.  I wish it was toned down a bit, not for me of course, but for the young generation.  Way to much to soon.

Old-fashioned at heart</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Kate,<br />
Excuse me for reading this like what &#8230;..three years later!!  Just had to comment, I found this amazing!  Of course our generation is out of control &#8230;.completely done a wild flip here.  I wish it was toned down a bit, not for me of course, but for the young generation.  Way to much to soon.</p>
<p>Old-fashioned at heart</p>
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		<title>Comment on Kate&#8217;s comments by Waiting</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2009/04/22/kates-comments/#comment-41</link>
		<dc:creator>Waiting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 18:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When i was a little boy i never dreamed or thought about who i was going to marry or what my wedding day would be like. I just didn't care. But now that i am older thats all i look forward to is finding my soul mate.  I'm only 22 so i know i have time but it just seems so hard to meet good girls... 'good' being the key word here. I don't drink so i dont want to keep meeting drunk girls at bars &#38; online dating just doesn't seem natural to me so what am i supposed to do???

Sincerely,

Waiting for my happy ending</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When i was a little boy i never dreamed or thought about who i was going to marry or what my wedding day would be like. I just didn&#8217;t care. But now that i am older thats all i look forward to is finding my soul mate.  I&#8217;m only 22 so i know i have time but it just seems so hard to meet good girls&#8230; &#8216;good&#8217; being the key word here. I don&#8217;t drink so i dont want to keep meeting drunk girls at bars &amp; online dating just doesn&#8217;t seem natural to me so what am i supposed to do???</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>Waiting for my happy ending</p>
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		<title>Comment on Uncertain&#8230; by Uncertain</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2009/04/16/uncertain-2/#comment-37</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncertain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 18:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are so right, my loved ones that have passed are on my mind at some point almost everyday. This keeps them alive in my heart &#38; in my memories. Memories to me are so precious! To me they are one of the most valuable things on this earth! Thank you for helping ease my uncertainty!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are so right, my loved ones that have passed are on my mind at some point almost everyday. This keeps them alive in my heart &amp; in my memories. Memories to me are so precious! To me they are one of the most valuable things on this earth! Thank you for helping ease my uncertainty!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Life/death? by Uncertain</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2009/04/15/lifedeath/#comment-36</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncertain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 20:13:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You touched on a point here that I have always had a fear about. When you hear these stories of people who have had near death experiences and they claim they saw a white light or a loved one... is this just your body/brain creating a safe place for you, kind of like when you are sick &#38; your immune system kicks in? Or are these people really experiencing something?? I guess we will never know until it’s our turn to find out. The only thing that makes me believe that there could be life after death is ghosts. But then again I have never seen one myself so who am I to say they truly exist either. Its all comes down to faith I guess and I have plenty of that! So here’s to hopeful thinking!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You touched on a point here that I have always had a fear about. When you hear these stories of people who have had near death experiences and they claim they saw a white light or a loved one&#8230; is this just your body/brain creating a safe place for you, kind of like when you are sick &amp; your immune system kicks in? Or are these people really experiencing something?? I guess we will never know until it’s our turn to find out. The only thing that makes me believe that there could be life after death is ghosts. But then again I have never seen one myself so who am I to say they truly exist either. Its all comes down to faith I guess and I have plenty of that! So here’s to hopeful thinking!</p>
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		<title>Comment on HOCKEY PUCKS or Penis&#8217;s by Billy Pilgrim</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2009/04/06/hockey-pucks-or-peniss/#comment-35</link>
		<dc:creator>Billy Pilgrim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 18:18:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Kate,

I saw a very interesting video on youtube called 
"the four horsemen". It's a conversation between 4 authors whose works have angered the religious right (christian, jewish, and muslim). In it Christopher Hitchens, author of "God is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything" says in response to the idea that his words have offended the faithful, that we should all be offended by the general proposition that without 'belief', we have no way to gauge right and wrong. 

Here is a link to the video:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-869630813464694890

I would love if you watched it and gave your thoughtful review.

Thank you,
Billy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Kate,</p>
<p>I saw a very interesting video on youtube called<br />
&#8220;the four horsemen&#8221;. It&#8217;s a conversation between 4 authors whose works have angered the religious right (christian, jewish, and muslim). In it Christopher Hitchens, author of &#8220;God is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything&#8221; says in response to the idea that his words have offended the faithful, that we should all be offended by the general proposition that without &#8216;belief&#8217;, we have no way to gauge right and wrong. </p>
<p>Here is a link to the video:<br />
<a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-869630813464694890" rel="nofollow">http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-869630813464694890</a></p>
<p>I would love if you watched it and gave your thoughtful review.</p>
<p>Thank you,<br />
Billy</p>
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		<title>Comment on  by dearkate</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2008/04/29/45/#comment-34</link>
		<dc:creator>dearkate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 20:42:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>okay so I am just out of 4-6 months of rehab.
dont ask
oh yeah you can ask, man that 6 months felt like a half a year.
I'm all better now.  
Ready to help you drive yourself off into a ditch, but the good news is I was there already [see above] and so I will be waiting  with a tow line to drag you up and out of the hole you are in..

Does anyone out there have any suggestions on how to survive addictions up the A-hole??

I have no clue...but the staff at the clinic, gave me this nifty lap top, so that I could help all of you nit wits out there...love kate</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>okay so I am just out of 4-6 months of rehab.<br />
dont ask<br />
oh yeah you can ask, man that 6 months felt like a half a year.<br />
I&#8217;m all better now.<br />
Ready to help you drive yourself off into a ditch, but the good news is I was there already [see above] and so I will be waiting  with a tow line to drag you up and out of the hole you are in..</p>
<p>Does anyone out there have any suggestions on how to survive addictions up the A-hole??</p>
<p>I have no clue&#8230;but the staff at the clinic, gave me this nifty lap top, so that I could help all of you nit wits out there&#8230;love kate</p>
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		<title>Comment on Serious gap!! by dearkate</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2008/04/21/serious-gap/#comment-33</link>
		<dc:creator>dearkate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 20:22:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>DR. BASSINGER..
JUST 
SHUT
UP 
ALREADY!!!

F--- your crossdressing guide!!

Laney, 
if your man is wearing your fancy 'go to meetin' panties..and  you take time to ask  if there is a problem...YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. kick his ass to the curb  and get on with life...kate</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DR. BASSINGER..<br />
JUST<br />
SHUT<br />
UP<br />
ALREADY!!!</p>
<p>F&#8212; your crossdressing guide!!</p>
<p>Laney,<br />
if your man is wearing your fancy &#8216;go to meetin&#8217; panties..and  you take time to ask  if there is a problem&#8230;YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. kick his ass to the curb  and get on with life&#8230;kate</p>
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		<title>Comment on Serious gap!! by dearkate</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2008/04/21/serious-gap/#comment-32</link>
		<dc:creator>dearkate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 20:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>p

you get no argument on your last effort there...i am both erotic and sensual in a betty crocker way.

meeting you and Laney in Stockholm was a disaster for me, I  knew nothing of your criminal bg's.
i understand that WW11  was a major set-back for you both...yet in Dr.Bassinger's client files [which of course, you know I am privy]  the time spent in Berlin just after the war  that ....was then...and this is now..you must get on with your lives, what little time  ~~~you have left~~~~ I also know that Laney suffers from 'Stockholm Sydrome'.
how very existential!!
waiting to hear back---sorry for the delay.
I have been in rehab for 4 months.  
Doctors feel it was from my dealings with the two of you  that was my undoing..
noregrets kate
ps howz that rash??</description>
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<p>you get no argument on your last effort there&#8230;i am both erotic and sensual in a betty crocker way.</p>
<p>meeting you and Laney in Stockholm was a disaster for me, I  knew nothing of your criminal bg&#8217;s.<br />
i understand that WW11  was a major set-back for you both&#8230;yet in Dr.Bassinger&#8217;s client files [which of course, you know I am privy]  the time spent in Berlin just after the war  that &#8230;.was then&#8230;and this is now..you must get on with your lives, what little time  ~~~you have left~~~~ I also know that Laney suffers from &#8216;Stockholm Sydrome&#8217;.<br />
how very existential!!<br />
waiting to hear back&#8212;sorry for the delay.<br />
I have been in rehab for 4 months.<br />
Doctors feel it was from my dealings with the two of you  that was my undoing..<br />
noregrets kate<br />
ps howz that rash??</p>
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		<title>Comment on Jena, the world is watching!! by Len Joseph</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2007/09/25/jena-the-world-is-watching/#comment-31</link>
		<dc:creator>Len Joseph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 00:37:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on  by kate</title>
		<link>http://www.dearkate.com/2008/04/29/45/#comment-25</link>
		<dc:creator>kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 18:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well  Y. Y., 
You are well versed in 'potential stressors'.
The key word here is 'potential'

Situations that cause stress are unavoidable, it is how we react to them that counts. 
We cant control all the events, people, and places in our lives that place demands on us, but we can learn to accept those things we cannot change. and learn to manage how we deal with them.

In your case I would check out why it is you have INSOMNIA...this is usually cause by chronic stress, making it difficult to get a restful night's sleep - can interfere with our body's mechanism for recovering and repairing itself.
Not being able to sleep prvents us from recognizing and dealing with our problems rationally. 
[paraphrased a. weil} love kat</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well  Y. Y.,<br />
You are well versed in &#8216;potential stressors&#8217;.<br />
The key word here is &#8216;potential&#8217;</p>
<p>Situations that cause stress are unavoidable, it is how we react to them that counts.<br />
We cant control all the events, people, and places in our lives that place demands on us, but we can learn to accept those things we cannot change. and learn to manage how we deal with them.</p>
<p>In your case I would check out why it is you have INSOMNIA&#8230;this is usually cause by chronic stress, making it difficult to get a restful night&#8217;s sleep - can interfere with our body&#8217;s mechanism for recovering and repairing itself.<br />
Not being able to sleep prvents us from recognizing and dealing with our problems rationally.<br />
[paraphrased a. weil} love kat</p>
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